Celebrated Valentine's Day with the BF on Saturday. Since it's a three day weekend, we had a kid-free Friday and Saturday, and then he had his son on Sunday and Monday.
It was nice. He loved the gift I gave him. A few months ago, he had a slogan idea for a t-shirt, so I secretly had my friend design a picture/logo thing, and then I had it printed on a t-shirt for him. He has a lot of fun ideas, but he never follows through on them, so I thought he would like it if I did this. He did! He said it was the second best gift he's ever got (my painting being the first one).
He got us deep tissue massages at a nice spa in Beverly Hills. It was very relaxing. I really need to make more money so that I can get regular massages. Of course I can't afford the Beverly Hills treatment. But even if I could find some way to come up for the funds to have it done in some cheap, tacky little nail salon where they charge $15 bucks. I think it really makes a big difference for my health. Acne that had started to rise up on my face was gone. I stress out easily, so this was just amazing.
I think he's losing that loving feeling. I'm not complaining, but I find it interesting that he didn't get me a card or flowers. When we were first dating, he got me three bouquets all within the first month. So I thought it was funny he didn't do that, since that's kind of his thing. I loved the spa, but it was just kinda something he wanted for himself anyway. He'd talked all week about how he needed a massage, as work was very stressful. So I was just kinda tacked onto a plan that he would have done for himself had we not been dating. Again, not complaining, just noticing.
Hmmmm....
That is interesting. Have you ever thought about bringing it up to him? And explaining that you're not complaining about it, but just wondering. It's okay to be honest and upfront with him.
ReplyDeleteIt's interesting how you notice little things like that when you're in tune with yourself. It might be that you're seeing something that isn't there, but it's good to keep a mental note of that kind of stuff in case a pattern forms.
ReplyDeleteAvitable: Yeah, I probably should if I want to keep things together. Because at this point, I feel like he's not that into me, and he kinda has one foot out the door. Which is funny, because I do, too!
ReplyDeleteRob: Totally. This is not the first time... similar things have happened before... I'm starting to see a pattern. Not only in his behavior, but in the kinds of men I've dated. They're all incredibly self-absorbed.
"They're all incredibly self-absorbed." Says the girl who writes a blog! ha ha!
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